7 body language gestures that make you look extremely confident

  

Confidence isn’t just about what you say, it’s about how you carry yourself too.

Body language speaks volumes about us, sometimes even more than our words. And when it comes to confidence, your body language can either make or break the impression you leave on others.

Mastering the art of confident body language isn’t just about appearing assured, it’s about feeling more self-assured too. And trust me, there are some simple yet powerful gestures that can help you do just that.

Here are 10 body language gestures that can transform not only how others perceive you, but also how you perceive yourself. Let’s dive right in.

1) Stand tall and proud

A hunched posture doesn’t exactly scream confidence, does it?

Confidence starts with standing tall and proud. Good posture is not just about aesthetics, it’s about expressing your self-assuredness to the world.

With your shoulders back, chin up, and chest slightly out, you are telling the world that you’re comfortable in your own skin and you’re not afraid to take up space.

Moreover, maintaining a good posture is not just about appearing confident to others, it’s about feeling more confident within yourself too.

So the next time you’re walking into a room or standing around, remember to straighten up. Not only will others perceive you as more confident, but you’ll also feel more self-assured.

 

2) Maintain eye contact

Nothing quite screams confidence like maintaining good eye contact.

I remember back in my early career days, I used to struggle with making eye contact during conversations. I’d constantly look away or down, and it was often perceived as a lack of confidence or interest.

But once I started working on it, and made a conscious effort to maintain eye contact during discussions, things started changing. Not only did people start taking me more seriously, but I also felt more confident and present in the moment.

Eye contact indicates that you’re engaged in the conversation and confident about what you’re saying.

But remember, there’s a fine line between maintaining eye contact and staring. You don’t want to make others uncomfortable. Just keep it natural and break the eye contact occasionally.

3) Use open body language

Did you know that crossing your arms or legs can be perceived as a defensive or closed-off stance?

Open body language, on the other hand, sends a message of confidence and approachability. It tells the world that you’re comfortable in your own skin and open to engaging with others.

This includes keeping your arms at your sides rather than folded across your chest, and not crossing your legs when you’re sitting down.

Next time you’re in a social situation, be mindful of your body language. Try to keep it open and relaxed. It will not only make you appear more confident but also 

more approachable.

4) Smile genuinely

A smile is a universal sign of friendliness and approachability. But not just any smile – a genuine one.

A real smile, one that reaches your eyes and lights up your whole face, can instantly make you more likable and confident. It shows you’re comfortable in your environment and happy to engage with others.

But remember, forced smiles are easy to spot and can come off as insincere or fake. So don’t just plaster a grin on your face, smile when you feel it.

And even if you’re not feeling particularly cheery, try to find something in the situation that genuinely makes you happy or amused.

A genuine smile can even help boost your own mood!

5) Use your hands while talking

There was a time when I was nervous about public speaking. I’d often keep my hands rigidly at my sides or clenched in front of me. It felt uncomfortable and probably looked it too.

But then I started using my hands more while speaking. Not in an overly dramatic way, but just enough to emphasize my points and express my thoughts more effectively.

And guess what? It worked!

Using your hands while talking can make you appear more passionate and confident about what you’re saying. It’s a way to physically engage with your words and ideas, and it can make your communication more effective.

It might feel a bit unnatural at first, but with practice, using your hands while talking will become a part of your natural communication style. And trust me, it does wonders for your confidence!

6) Keep a steady pace

When you’re nervous, it’s easy to start speaking faster without even realizing it. But rushing through your words can make you appear less confident and more anxious.

Keeping a steady pace while speaking shows that you’re calm, composed, and in control of the situation. It allows your listeners to fully absorb what you’re saying, making your communication more effective.

To maintain a steady pace, try to be mindful of your speed when you’re speaking. If you catch yourself rushing, take a deep breath and slow down.

After all, confidence is not about how quickly you can get your point across, but about the clarity and effectiveness of your communication. Take your time, keep a steady pace, and let your confidence shine through.

7) Be yourself

Finally, and most importantly, just be yourself.

Confidence isn’t about pretending to be someone else or putting on a show. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin and embracing who you truly are.

When you’re genuine and authentic, it shines through and is perceived as confidence. People are drawn to authenticity, and there’s nothing more authentic than being true to yourself.

So forget about trying to fit into a certain mold or impressing others. Instead, focus on being the best version of yourself. That’s where real confidence comes from.

Remember, every gesture, every posture, every look will be naturally confident when you’re simply being yourself.

Finally, and most importantly, just be yourself.

Confidence isn’t about pretending to be someone else or putting on a show. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin and embracing who you truly are.

When you’re genuine and authentic, it shines through and is perceived as confidence. People are drawn to authenticity, and there’s nothing more authentic than being true to yourself.

So forget about trying to fit into a certain mold or impressing others. Instead, focus on being the best version of yourself. That’s where real confidence comes from.

Remember, every gesture, every posture, every look will be naturally confident when you’re simply being yourself.